If You Watch It...He Will Cry. - Rediscover the 80s

If You Watch It...He Will Cry.


This week's assignment for the League: What movie, TV show, book, etc. turns you into a blubbering baby every time you see it? Well, there are a few 80s movie scenes that have worked their teary-eyed magic on me as a kid AND as an adult. As a kid watching Superman II, I remember crying when he first decides to remove his powers and quit being Superman. And then if that wasn't enough, he gets the crap beaten out of him by that trucker-type guy at the diner. Those scenes had a major impact on me. Another emotional roller coaster I experienced as a kid was The Neverending Story. From the highs of flying with Falcor in the clouds to the lows of losing Atreyu's horse Artax in the muddy Swamp of Sadness, it was amazing I was able to function at all after watching that movie as an 8 year old.


Then there was that day in 1986 we all experienced..."the day the cartoons died." Watching Optimus Prime die in Transformers: The Movie is probably the Old Yellar moment for children of the 80s. Thankfully Optimus came back, but those moments that gripped us as kids still come out when we watch the movies today. Recently I found a VHS copy of E.T. and watched it with my boys. It was first time in years I had watched it and the first my boys had ever seen it. I didn't seem to remember the emotional ties I had to the movie. E.T.'s death, the flying bike scene over the police cars, the departure home...they all had me tearing up. But there is one movie as an adult now (at least on the outside) that gets me every time.

Field of Dreams has the firmest grip on my tear ducts. I loved playing baseball as kid. Whether it was wiffleball with the neighborhood kids, organized little league, or just playing catch with my dad, I felt like I grew up with a glove permanently attached to my left hand until I was about 13. I connected with the movie at first, mainly because I was a fan of baseball. I appreciated the story for what is was, but didn't truly connect with the emotions. But now, after having becoming a father myself and playing baseball with my two boys, the ending of the movie gets me every time. Watching Ray's blind faith to build the field and then embarking on a journey with no end in sight just magnifies the climax of the film. Ray's reconnection with his dad by just playing catch is so simple but yet, so pure. The introduction of Ray's daughter to his dad and the question "Dad? You wanna have a catch?" is an awesome emotion to experience. It's one of child-like joy and parental pride all wrapped into one. I feel fortunately that I've got to personally experience both sides. And that's why I cry every every time I watch Field of Dreams.




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If You Watch It...He Will Cry. If You Watch It...He Will Cry. Reviewed by Jason Gross on 6:40:00 AM Rating: 5

7 comments:

  1. I have always been a bit on the sentimental side, I can remember watching movies with my mom when I was a kid and getting choked up, Terms of Endearment, Beaches, and Steel Magnolias are three that come to mind immediately, but it was nice to sit down and watch a baseball movie like Field of Dreams with my dad and see him wiping away tears at a few points to get that validation that sentimentality isn't necessarily a bad thing and that even real men can have their heart strings tugged on from time to time.

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    1. Beaches usually does it for me too. God damn you, Wind Beneath My Wings montage.

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  2. Oh man, you totally scooped me this week, but I'll still be writing about Field of Dreams in my post--one of my all time favorite movies. It just gets better and better with every viewing, and still gives me chills from the very first words whispered in the corn field.

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    1. I almost went for Transformers: The Movie but I just watched it about a month ago and it didn't do it for me. Field of Dreams will get me until the end of time.

      Looking forward to your take!

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  3. +1 for Optimus Prime death. Michael Bay should have taken better notes.

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    1. I stumbled across an article for the many deaths of Optimus Prime...thinkit's up to like 8 or 9 now counting cartoons, movie, and comics.

      He's like the Jason Vorhees of robots now.

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